Question: What do you consider your strengths & weaknesses when it comes to finances?
- Seek First The Kingdom – Rather than seeing the goal of new marriage as the accumulation of things, couples need to build a strong team relationship and seek God first. Jesus talked about the desire to accumulate things and about worries over money. In Matthew 6:33, He advised: “Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
- You’re A Manager Not An Owner – Rather than being owners of all we hold, we are more accurately “renters” in this world — caretakers of what God has given us. “We brought nothing into the world, and we cannot take anything out of the world” (1 Timothy 6:7).
- Growth Through Faithfulness – How we faithfully manage what He has given us will determine whether He will give us greater things to manage. “Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master” (Matthew 25:23). The biblical concept of stewardship begins with understanding that we will be judged by how well we take care of our resources, including the people in our lives
- Think ahead to avoid problems. “Which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost, whether he has enough to complete it?” (Luke 14:28). Too often, couples put off planning until they are so deeply in debt that it seems impossible to get out. That’s not planning; it’s reacting. Couples need to begin planning by writing down their goals and objectives, which should include a balanced budget, and these goals and objectives need to be reviewed yearly.
- Keep good records. “By wisdom, a house is built, and by understanding it is established; by knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches” (Proverbs 24:3-4). It is impossible for couples to have their finances under control unless they understand the basics of good record keeping. Recently it was discovered that fewer than two out of 10 couples know how to actually balance their bank accounts. This means that many married couples seldom know how much money they have to spend or how much they are spending. Couples should work together to develop their financial plans, but there should be only one bookkeeper in the home who pays the bills. Two bookkeepers tend to invite disaster.
- Get educated. “The simple believes everything, but the prudent gives thought to his steps” (Proverbs 14:15). Most financially naive couples are not stupid regarding money; they are just uninformed regarding how borrowing and interest rates work. As a result, their primary concern becomes “How much are the monthly payments?” rather than “How much is this going to cost ultimately?” In addition, naive people often borrow more money than they can repay because they have no budget. In essence, they have no idea where their money goes each month or how much credit their income can support. Couples need to learn financial management and budgeting principles and use that information to avoid debt or financial problems. Crown Financial Ministries has many tools to help create budgets, plan retirement, and consider the true cost of your plans so they can be fulfilled.
- Sharpen your skills, entrepreneurism, and residual Income – Take a calculated risk by understanding the markets, demand, marketing, and your target demographic purchasing power. Ecclesiastes 10:10 reads “If the ax is dull and its edge unsharpened, more strength is needed, but skill will bring success”. Abraham was wealthy because he learned to tap into essential human resources (i.e. Water) and form political alliances that would protect his interest (Genesis 21:25-34). Some key industries are consulting, real-estate, brokering, technology, etc. Consider residual income industries like -e-commerce, stock market, property investment/rental/AirBnB, selling books/e-books, insurance, financial services, etc.