Christian Singles Counseling: Preparing You for God’s Best Relationship
Not a Dating Service—A Season of Preparation
At Impact Family Christian Counseling, we help single Christians move from longing to living.
This isn’t a dating service. It’s a season of transformation—where your heart, habits, and mindset are aligned with God’s plan for your future relationship.
Our Christian Singles Counseling Program helps you grow spiritually, emotionally, socially, and financially so you can become ready for the person God has prepared for you—and just as importantly, prepared for you to meet them.
Like Abraham’s servant in Genesis 24, who prayed for divine guidance before meeting Rebekah, we teach you how to trust God’s timing, walk in purpose, and attract from peace—not from pressure.
Why So Many Christian Singles Struggle
Even the most faithful believers wrestle with the tensions of this season.
You might recognize yourself in some of these:
- Feeling lonely or spiritually disconnected, even in church
- Battling desperation or “thirstiness” that leads to poor relationship choices
- Repeating patterns of unhealthy emotional attachment
- Comparing yourself to others who seem “ahead” in life
- Fighting sexual temptation, guilt, or shame
- Experiencing financial instability or lack of direction
- Feeling unseen or overlooked despite faithfulness
Our counseling reframes singleness as a divine assignment, not a delay.
Our Approach: Becoming Whole Before Becoming One
We walk with you through a process of becoming emotionally secure, spiritually anchored, and socially confident.
You’ll learn how to build a healthy identity rooted in God—not relationship status—and to cultivate the relational, spiritual, and life skills that make love sustainable.
The Five Dimensions of Preparation
- Spiritual Maturity — Learn how to hear God clearly, break ungodly soul ties, and discern His will for your relationships.
- Emotional Healing — Process wounds from past heartbreak, rejection, or trauma to regain peace and clarity.
- Social Confidence — Grow in communication, boundaries, and friendship skills that lead to authentic connection.
- Financial Stewardship — Develop the discipline and stability to build a healthy future with integrity and freedom.
- Physical & Lifestyle Wellness — Honor your body, strengthen self-discipline, and cultivate habits that radiate confidence and self-respect.
Rooted in Experience and Biblical Wisdom
This program draws from the combined wisdom of Jack and Jhael Hakimian, Christian marriage and singles counselors, ministry leaders, and founders of Impact Family Christian Counseling.
They bring over two decades of ministry experience, mentoring singles, couples, and families toward emotional and spiritual wholeness.
Their approach integrates practical psychology, biblical truth, and real-life experience to guide you from frustration to fruitfulness.
Inspired by Trusted Christian Singles Resources
Our sessions also draw from time-tested Christian teachings and books such as:
- Boundaries in Dating — Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend
- The Sacred Search — Gary Thomas
- Lady in Waiting — Jackie Kendall & Debby Jones
- The Wait — DeVon Franklin & Meagan Good
- Choosing God’s Best — Dr. Don Rainey
- Kingdom Single — Dr. Tony Evans
- The Five Love Languages: Singles Edition — Dr. Gary Chapman
Each session helps you apply these biblical principles to your real life—not just read about them.
How Christian Counseling Helps You Thrive as a Single
You’ll discover how to:
- Heal from emotional baggage that clouds your discernment
- Strengthen your faith and peace during seasons of waiting
- Build confidence rooted in God’s love, not others’ attention
- Understand the biblical model of dating and courtship
- Learn to maintain attraction through emotional and spiritual depth
- Prepare for engagement and marriage with maturity and joy
Our goal is to help you become a person of wholeness—someone who attracts through peace, not need.
Who This Is For
- Singles frustrated by unhealthy relationship cycles
- Christians healing from heartbreak, divorce, or disappointment
- Men and women desiring to grow before dating again
- Young adults preparing for biblical marriage
- Anyone ready to exchange loneliness for purpose
Our Heart for You
You were never meant to wait in fear or rush in desperation.
God’s timing is perfect—but He also asks us to prepare.
Through this journey, you’ll learn to love yourself rightly, love God deeply, and love others wisely.
When preparation meets purpose, attraction becomes effortless—and love becomes sacred.
Start Your Journey of Wholeness Today
Take your next step toward confidence, healing, and readiness.
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